Kate's Five Things

Plus how to visualize your design plans and deal with unlucky streaks

Sep 08, 2023

Catching up…

It is the first week of September so naturally I am sitting at my desk in full-on Meg Ryan cosplay, clad in a cardigan and drinking a cozy cup of tea. And just like Meg, I’m choosing the side of optimism in the face of real setbacks. Summer has given way to some clarity. I thought I’d roll into fall with this brand new idea of what my future would look like. Instead, I’ve found all the ways I’ve wandered away from myself.

Last week’s House Call…

Last week’s House Call newsletter really went to the root of it. In my essay, “An Imperfect Guide to Dealing With a Bad Week, Month, or Year,” I discussed what I’ve learned from a long list of setbacks.

Here’s an excerpt from the post:

“A tree just grows. It’s not overthinking; it just is. A baby knows when to be born. Birds know they like worms. Our world thrums on in ways we cannot comprehend. Whenever I feel like my mind is getting away from itself, that I cannot handle the worries, or that my life is insignificant, simply stepping outside can put things into perspective. Maybe this is where faith comes into play. Whatever helps you get outside your mind and find perspective, turn toward it. Seek out what makes you feel at peace. As much of a gift as our cerebral nature is, it also means we miss most of the miracles happening around us. We think we can control our world, our experiences. It’s an illusion and a prison—but one with an open door. We can walk out when we’re ready.
When I feel lost, nature never fails to bring me home. To be is enough.”

In recent days, I have felt a sense of peace around not having found “the answer” during my time away from publishing at the same pace I had been. More to come in an announcement this September.

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What I’m reading… Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver. It’s a doozy. I’m having zero fun reading it but cannot put it down. The author's writing is incredible. I am enthralled and horrified.

What I’m watching… Peggy Guggenheim: Art Addict. I recently came across this portrait posted as a tribute on what would have been Peggy’s 125th birthday. I’ve been reading stories lately about women who lived life on their own terms and Peggy was ahead of her time in so many ways. There isn’t much video footage of her because Peggy preferred being photographed and really came to life behind the lens. This documentary was a tiny peek into the woman who shaped modern art as we know it today.

What I’m eating… Chocolate Chip Hold the Cone treats from Trader Joe’s. They brought me joy in the dog days of August! They're the perfect size. I had to hide them from Joe because I did not want to share.

What’s in my cart… I have been perusing the newest Madewell denim selection, considering what items would help round out my closet. Their 90s Straight Jean is a great cut and I love this brown color!

What I’m looking forward to… I’m heading to Montana today to kick off a design consultation project on a build-out in Red Lodge! I’ll share more on my IG Stories this weekend.

Reader Question:

I’m building a new home and want it to feel timeless. Where to start? I’m feeling overwhelmed!

My Answer:

Designing a home in a way that feels timeless is all about balance, functionality, and personal style. It is also about looking to the past, getting into the details, and focusing on the nuances that make up a timeless style. Here are a few key takeaways for you:

1. Create a Base Color Scheme

Timeless designs often start with a neutral color palette as a base. Shades of white, beige, gray, or cream provide a classic backdrop that stands the test of time. The KEY in this is that they also offer flexibility, allowing you to easily change up your decor or introduce accent colors. If I was building from scratch, I would start with a neutral base and decide where I wanted to bring in timeless colors and prints—possibly in separate spaces like pantries, powder rooms, bedrooms, and dining rooms.

2. Invest in High-Quality Furniture

Whenever possible, invest in well-crafted furniture made from durable materials. Choose pieces with clean, simple lines and classic styles that won't go out of fashion. Comfort should be a priority, especially for items like sofas and beds. Accumulate slowly and buy the things that will stand the test of time.

3. Mix Old and New

Blend antique or vintage pieces with modern ones to create a balanced look. This mix can add character and depth to your space. For instance, pair a modern sofa with a vintage coffee table or vice versa. Timeless homes are not cookie cutter, nor do they belong in a catalog! Bring in items you’ve collected from family members or from traveling and layer in books, antiques, and objects of curiosity.

4. Work with the Right Builder

If you’re at the beginning of your project, make sure your builder understands your vision. Don’t be afraid to ask for clarity. Ask to see samples of finishes, moldings, and materials. Follow people like The Makerista who have built new homes that look old. Comb through their guides and learn about where you can invest in those timeless details like windows, flooring, trim, cabinet style, etc.