What Makes the Elusive Cool Mom Outfit?
Is it possible to dress for style, comfort, and practicality all at once?
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It’s easy to fall into the gravitational pull of the Lululemon uniform. A trusty black pants-and-hoodie combo that’s comfortable, practical, and totally works for the life we’re living.
Through my years with small kids, all spent under the shadow of COVID-19, my size fluctuated from size 4 to 12. Not only are the years hard for us mentally, but we’re physically changing all the time. So, a wardrobe that can expand and contract with the cycles of parenthood is paramount.
But sometimes, “practical” isn’t enough. In a season of life when so much of my energy is spent doing things for everyone else, when my body doesn’t even feel like mine, getting dressed feels like one of the few things I can still claim as mine.
It’s not that I want to “dress up” for anyone else; it’s about remembering who I am outside of the carpools, errands, and endless to-do lists. I want to feel like me. I want clothes that reflect my personality, energy, and style, not just what’s easy to throw on. Because even when life is chaotic, I am allowed to feel like myself.
The key to striking this balance without stressing or adding one more thing to your mental load is to find great basics that go with everything in your closet—and elevate your go-to looks.
There aren’t many brands out there doing this. Then I found Ruti and their amazing Wide-ish black pants. The Wide-ish pants are their best seller and the pair that made me believe the Cool Mom uniform was achievable without putting in too much effort.
Ruti’s clothing is beloved for its unique blend of comfort, style, and versatility, making it a standout choice for everyday wear. All of their pants are constructed with a slightly stretchy material. Practical features like side pockets add functionality without compromising the sleek design. Hitting just above the ankle, they pair effortlessly with different footwear, from sneakers to heels, adapting seamlessly to casual and formal settings.
The Wide-ish pants are made of a performance fabric that resists wrinkles and feels like wearing sweats. And they look cool. The moment I slipped them on, it was an instant full-body yes.
I’ve been wearing Ruti pants everywhere. School drop-offs, work calls, over my tennis clothing, errands, and even lounging around at home—they just work. They make me feel pulled together without trying too hard, which feels like a win right now. I was so impressed with the Wide-ish pants, I tried their denim and found the same quality fit and comfort.
If you’re looking for something that feels as good as it looks, you’ve got to try these. They’ve completely changed how I think about getting dressed. I can’t wait for you to see what I mean.
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"Because even when life is chaotic, I am allowed to feel like myself" – yes to this, always!
Thanks so much for sharing these pieces; I've been on the hunt for the perfect wide leg pant and these options look promising 😌